Happy Belated Thanksgiving, my Friends!!! We have so much to be Thankful for this year!!! Also, total props to you Moms that have been keeping up with your blogging…I don’t know how you do it! Of course, it doesn’t help that instead of life pausing a bit as I get to used to motherhood, my life has been just as busy if not busier than normal. We are trying our damnedest to get Family Promise open ASAP. We were hoping by the end of January, but now we’re having to put off hiring our director until after a meeting with the board who owns our day center and that’s not happening until Dec. 5th. It’s been an intense amount of work lately with no end in sight at the moment. Onto Sweet Little A’s update:
How old: 9w3d
Height and weight: As of Nov. 18th, she was 9.6lbs and 21 1/4 inches which put her in the 9th percentile for both. Percentile for height stayed the same but weight went up 6 points so that was good. She’s officially off the preemie formula (YAY!!!!)! She also got her immunizations at this appt and it was awful! She cried so hard and real BIG tears for the first time ever. Luckily, the only reaction she seemed to have from them was sleeping a lot.
Nicknames: Oh so many, peanut, pumpkin, pumpk, puddin’, puddin’ pop, monkey pie, tootsi pop, Annie
Sleep: A is a pretty great sleeper still. She usually gets up some time in-between 2-4 and then again in-between 6-8. I really can’t complain. Sometimes she’s really restless in her rock and play so then we pull her in bed with us to snuggle until she falls asleep. Her owlet monitor has been a huge peace of mind for us. We love it and I don’t even want to know the basket case I would be without it! She has started to be alert for much longer periods of time these last few weeks. The time is just flying by!
Eating: You would never know our peanut was in the NICU for feeding issues! She eats like a champ now. She drinks 3 oz every 3-4 hours most of the time. For awhile in the evening, she was cluster feeding. Now we give her rice cereal usual between 9-10pm and then another 2-3 oz. of formula before she goes to bed. She was waking up in the night, having a bottle and then fussing for another hour before we’d try more formula. The rice cereal stops that from happening and since my Mom had me on rice cereal at 3 days old, I really don’t worry about it. She loves it and eats from a spoon better than the 8 mo old I have in daycare! She is still spitting up but since it doesn’t seem to cause her any pain and she’s still gaining weight, the Dr. isn’t worried about it.
Milestones: The night before she turned 8 weeks, A rolled front to back and does it consistently anytime we put her on her tummy. Her neck is getting very strong and she frequently bops it up which makes burping a bit more difficult. Her eyes/head follow who is speaking and she’s starting to smile more and more. She’s a pretty serious girl but those smiles are getting much more frequent (unless you pull the camera/phone out and then it rarely comes out….stinker!). She is also starting to follow our food to our mouth already! I told her she better hope she gets her teeth early since she’s so interested in our food already. Crazy girl!
Loves: Cuddling…so much cuddling, her bottles and rice cereal, her nuk, gripping our fingers and Mama’s hair already.
Dislikes: Getting dressed and undressed, getting poopy diapers changed, getting in her carseat. She’s fine once she’s in and we’re moving but despises getting those straps tightened.
How’s Mommy doing: Honestly, I’m doing great! I wish I had more time to just snuggle and cuddle with her and I really wish I could be a SAHM without a bunch of extra children, but it’s just not possible right now. I love being with her and wish I didn’t have to put her down to do things like clean the house and such, lol. I’m very thankful that everything i do is very family oriented! Nobody in Young Living, Family Promise or my professional women’s group I attend minds one bit if I bring A with. In fact, if I don’t, I tend to get some dirty looks, lol. The other night my Sister and I walked in our hometown parade for Family Promise and I had at least half a dozen if not a dozen people yell out asking about her and where she was, lol. My favorite thing to hear from people is that they had been praying for us and they’re so thankful we finally have our baby. It’s an amazing thing to realize how many people paid attention to your story when you didn’t even know they were!
How’s Daddy doing: J is wrapped around Annabelle’s teeny tiny little finger! He interacts and chats with her often and every time she gets upset, he pretends it’s about the Packers awful season they’re having and it’s quite cute and funny. He heads back to work tomorrow and I don’t think any of us are ready for him to go. Many week nights, he got up with her every time so I could get sleep to work. It’s rare for me to be the only one to get up. We’ll have to figure out a new schedule now. He’ll probably get up with her during the more middle of the night feeding and I will do the closer to morning feeding and then probably just stay up, maybe even work out, lol. He has had a few panic/meltdowns about our financial situation and the loan we had to take out to pay fees and I totally get it. It’s scary to add yet another monthly payment. And we have another 2000-4000 left to pay in attorney fees before we finalize. However, just since she’s been born, people have sent us about $2200 to go towards her adoption fees and the day after his big meltdown, a couple in our small group who has also adopted sent us $500 and 2 days later, another couple in our small group sent us $500. I told him God would provide and God quickly proved me right. The support from others is amazing! We have a long way to go to get that loan paid off, but I’m working on selling as much unnecessary stuff as I can. Unfortunately, November is not an ideal time to sell a camper or motorcycle in WI.
Alright, I think that is most of our updates or at least the most my brain will hold at the moment. I’m sure as soon as I hit publish I’ll think of something else. Oh, like the fact that I’m officially too old to stay up all night long. My Sister and I always do Black Friday shopping, it’s our bonding time and we actually did it without sleeping this year…I’m still trying to make up for that sleep and unfortunately, have to head back to work tomorrow, lol. Alright ladies, I am sending you all love and good thoughts and wishing you a very Merry and Happy Holiday Season!!!
Lots of Love~Dawn
Ahhh, I almost forgot pictures!!!! Here you go: